我要开始翻译David DeAngelo的《cocky&funny guide》了，全书190多页，我会持续更新的，希望大家支持。有什么不好的地方大家多多交流，在此谢谢大家。翻译完之后将会制作成PDF电子书。

《骄傲与风趣指南》译者：一亲芳泽骄

傲与风趣全指南

简介：

本指南是本人历时2年精心研究针对异性拥有更大威力和更多选择的最好方法的结果。

简单的说，我归纳成这本指南是为了帮助其他男人在女人这方面能做得更好。我想，每个男人最终的目的为了找到那个特别的“她”。很可惜，在你遇到“她”之前，你会遇到好几个，甚至几百个女人。假如你没有适当地处理与女人的关系的知识与经验的话，结果当你最终遇到“她”的时候，你就会搞砸。 我经历过。。。真的。

当你梦中的女神出现的时候，你必须把每一件事说对做对。说实话，好女人又少又难搞定，你最好先准备好。这本指南将给你提供一个通俗易懂的系统让你能时刻准备着那个时刻的来临。

本指南中大约有一般的内容源自于本人的想法和经验。另外一半来自出色的想法和材料：

David DeAngelo (www.doubleyourdating.com)
Tyler Durden (www.realsocialdynamics.com)
Swinggcat (www.realworldseduction.com)
Mystery (www.mysterymethod.com)
Moderated alt.seduction.fast (mASF) (www.fastseduction.com)

还有为这个事业作出巨大贡献的Tyler Durden, Style, Mystery, Papa, jlaix和其他一些订阅源

Cliff’s Newsletter (www.be-relentless.com)
The Don Juan Newsletter (www.sosuave.com),
Thundercat’s Seduction Lair (www.thundercatseductionlair.com)
The Player’s Guide from AskMen.com (www.playersguide.com)
Tony’s Lay Guide (www.layguide.com)
Ross Jeffries’ Speed Seduction (www.seduction.com)

你可以自己去看看这些网站和他们的资料，不过，本指南已经帮你做了一切，帮你精挑细选了真正有用的精华。像我一样，你可以随意吸收和借鉴这儿的一切来满足自己的需要，建立自己的风格。

在我这指南里不同的是，我没有给出大道理然后希望大家都去应用。光叫一哥们儿“说点什么，表现得她的任何测试对你根本不起作用”是远远不够的。他需要多看一些说什么才能潜在表现出那些根本影响不了他的例子。我单单提供一些关于在一些情况下该说什么的例子，同时，我还提供一些想法关于如果这个情形持续下去将会该做些什么说些什么。

还有一个东西其他理论普遍缺少的是“结构”。我已经综合了很多技巧，把它们整合成一个结构来成功地泡到妞。这个结构已经得到了RSD导师papa的支持，而且你们可以在kazaa和WinMX网的视频里看到。

这个整体的观念就是，不管你是跟女人进行2分钟的街搭还是2小时的约会，以下几个阶段是你成功泡到她所要经过的：
   
    1. 态度    这是最重要的部分，你必须在跟女人开始之前就搞定这个部分。除非你已经有正确的心态，不然你再努力地去吸引一个女人，你注定是要失败的。

    2. 寻找/打开    这个意思是你要先准备自己,去一个有女人的地方，打开/搭讪她。

    3. 吸引    在这个阶段，你用技巧去建立吸引和性张力。

    4. 考验    这个阶段包括展示你是在一个“你已经被预选，是你在考验她”的框架里。可以简单到“你看起来很酷”。

    5. 舒适感    这个阶段包括通过用感情控制对话，冷读，感情植入等手法建立信任感和舒适感。

    6. 扩展    在这个极短，你将用技巧建立的吸引和性张力提升到一个更高的层次。

    7. 结束（close） 这个阶段包括“封底”（要到电话，约会，接吻，或者SC)。

阶段切换的意思是从一个阶段切换到任何下一个阶段。  你不一定要把每个阶段过一遍才能泡到妞，你也不一定要按照这样的顺序，但最好是按照这样做。很明显，你需要去找到并且搭讪一个女人，一些吸引的化学反应是必须的。在某种程度上，你一定要有一个结果（close）（除非你只是想练练某一部分）。其他的阶段没有那么重要，但是还是占有一点分量的。

在任何情况下，一个重要的原则就是做最少的功进入下一阶段。

每个阶段的的目的和完成，在你读下去的时间里，你会越来越清楚。祝你在实战中成功。

首先，你将需要这个。。。。


To be continued....(明天接着翻译第一章）
 

原文

Full Guide on being C+F

Cocky and Funny Teh full guide for u guys.
INTRODUCTION

This guide is the result of 2 years of my research into the best methods to have
more power and choice with the opposite sex.

In a nutshell, I put this guide together to help other men do better with
women. I think that ultimately what every man wants is to meet that ONE
special woman. Unfortunately, you may have to meet dozens, if not hundreds,
of women before you’ll find “the one”. And if you don’t have the knowledge
and experience to deal properly with women in the first place, odds are you’ll
blow it when you finally meet that special woman. I’ve seen it…firsthand.

When the woman of your dreams DOES come around, you’re going to have to
say and do everything right. Truly spectacular women are few and far between,
so you’d better be ready. This guide is designed to give you a comprehensive,
user-friendly system in order to be ready when that time comes.

About half the contents of this guide are a compilation of my thinking and
experience. The other half are compiled from the excellent material and ideas
from:

David DeAngelo (www.doubleyourdating.com)
Tyler Durden (www.realsocialdynamics.com)
Swinggcat (www.realworldseduction.com)
Mystery (www.mysterymethod.com)
Moderated alt.seduction.fast (mASF) (www.fastseduction.com), and the great
contributions to that board by Tyler Durden, Style, Mystery, Papa, jlaix, and
many others
Cliff’s Newsletter (www.be-relentless.com)
The Don Juan Newsletter (www.sosuave.com),
Thundercat’s Seduction Lair (www.thundercatseductionlair.com)
The Player’s Guide from AskMen.com (www.playersguide.com)
Tony’s Lay Guide (www.layguide.com)
Ross Jeffries’ Speed Seduction (www.seduction.com)

You can investigate these websites and their material on your own, however
with this guide I’ve done all the work for you, and “trimmed the fat” in their
systems to give you the bare bones of what works. Just as I’ve taken from
others, feel free to take what you find herein and adapt it to your own style
and needs.

What you’ll find different about my guide is that I don’t just lay out broad
principles and expect people to be able to apply them. It’s not enough to just
tell a guy to “Say something to her to show that her testing doesn’t affect
you”. He needs to see examples of WHAT to say to communicate that it doesn’t
affect him. Not only do I provide the “what” to do and say in many situations,
but I also often provide some ideas of what to do and say if the situation
continues further.

Another thing that’s lacking in most systems is a STRUCTURE. I’ve integrated
these techniques into a structure to successfully pick up or seduce a woman.
This structure is based on the one espoused by the instructors at Real Social
Dynamics, and can be seen described in a video of Papa available on Kazaa and
on the WinMX network.

The whole idea of this structure is that regardless of the interaction with a
woman, whether it’s a 2-minute street pickup or a 2-hour date, there are
several phases that you go through for a successful pick-up/seduction:

    1.  ATTITUDE This is the most important part, and is taken care of BEFORE
       the interaction. Unless you have the right mindset your efforts at
       attracting a woman will fail.

    2. FIND/OPEN This means preparing yourself, going where the woman is,
       and opening/approaching her.

    3.  ATTRACT In this phase, you use techniques to build attraction and
       sexual tension.

    4. QUALIFY This involves showing that you're in the frame of being
       selective and that you're evaluating HER. Can be something as simple as
       "You seem cool."

    5. RAPPORT This phase involves building trust and rapport through
       emotionally engaging conversation, cold reading, empathy, etc

    6.  AMPLIFY In this phase you use techniques to build up the attraction and
       sexual tension, to an even higher level.

    7. CLOSE This phase involves “sealing the deal” (contact close, meet close,
       kiss close, or sex close)
As an acronym, this is the A-FOAQRAC plan (“folk-rack” for ease of
remembering it).
To "phase-shift" means to shift from one of these phases to the next. You don’t
HAVE to necessarily go through all of these phases to have success with a
woman, and you don’t have to follow the same order, but ideally you should.
Obviously you’re going to have to find and open a woman, and some
attraction/chemistry will be necessary. You’ll also have to close her at some
point (unless you’re just out to practice your game). The other phases are less
important, but still have some bearing.

In any case an important principle is to do the least amount necessary to get to
the next phase.

The purpose and execution of each of these phases will be much clearer as you
read on. Good luck in your study and application in the field, and please send
me your feedback at oleflirtybastard@hotmail.com.

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